Conversations with My Immigrant Parents

Immigrant whānau across Aotearoa have frank conversations covering love, ancestry, home, food, expectation, and acceptance.

Produced by Saraid de Silva and Julie Zhu

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Not Your White Boy

Season 2 / Episode 1
From Botswana to Nelson to Pōneke, Judah and his sons Tafara and Pako have experienced multiple communities. They talk about fruit picking, single dad life, and dreams in different languages.
Judah Seomeng playing guitar in his house in Te Whanganui-a-Tara

Independence Is Great but It’s Not All It’s Cracked Up to Be

Season 2 / Episode 2
When 11-year-old Anique left Sri Lanka, she thought it'd be temporary. Almost two decades later, she talks with brother Navin and mum Sushani about guilt, obligation, and what freedom really means.
(L-R) Navin, Anique and Sushani together at home in Tāmaki Makaurau

VIP

Season 2 / Episode 3
After four years studying in Dunedin, Alby has just moved back in with his mum Lina in Naenae. The two of them discuss Lina's career, Alby's grief, and whom our lives are lived for.
Explores themes around mental health.
Albert and Lina Fairbrother stand under an umbrella at Taita Cemetery

Red Chicken with the Big Wings

Season 2 / Episode 4
It took Juliana eight long years to gain residency after moving here from Brazil. She and her mum Nadmea discuss New Zealand's immigration system, second chances, and Tinder-ing in your 50s.
References to suicide and mental health.
Nadmea Carvalho stands in front of some flowers outside her home in Tāmaki

Side by Side

Season 2 / Episode 5
Sisters Avi and Eva sit down with their daughters and talk about white men who travel to Indonesia, the fetishisation of Asian women, and leading parallel lives in Whangārei.
(L-R) Eva Corne and sister Avi Nurhidayati Damerell

My Dad Is My Mum

Season 2 / Episode 6
In Kirikiriroa, Donally and her father Alfredo discuss parenting that contradicts society's expectations, how Filipino men are expected to 'get on with it,' and life after tremendous grief.
Refers to mental health, grief, and death.
Alfredo Bernal and daughter Donally in Alfredo's garden in Kirikiriroa

Homesick on the Marae

Season 2 / Episode 7
Arriving from Fiji, newlywed Halima Stewart headed straight to Tapu Te Ranga Marae where she raised three kids with husband Bruce. She talks with her two youngest about navigating different cultures.
Halima Stewart at her ex-husband Bruce Stewart's grave at Tapu Te Ranga

Something Far Greater Than This

Season 2 / Episode 8
How do we search for something we've never seen? The last episode of the series sees the Arif whānau reflect on their years in Aotearoa and dream of a better future.
Mayssaa and her husband Mahmud laughing during an interview at their home in Kirikiriroa